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Showing posts with label waiting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label waiting. Show all posts

Monday, September 26, 2016

When Growing Means Going With the Flow


You goals are set. You have a plan. Now it's time to execute. While your plan looks great on paper the reality is that there are outside forces and folks who influence your ability to accomplish what you have set out to do. The world is a much bigger place than our tiny little bubble, As a result, it becomes necessary to execute our plan in the midst of what is going on around us. 

Susan had always dreamed of opening an ice cream shop in her home town. She had the perfect location and the funding secured to purchase it. After years of planning and saving she was about to make her dream of being a business owner in the community she grew up in a reality. She made her offer for the building and then it was time to wait and see what the owners would do. After a few days her realtor called back and advised her that the owners had decided to accept another offer. Susan was heartbroken, she had waited so long for this opportunity and now it was seemingly out of reach. She did have the capital to increase her offer and there were really no other viable locations in the immediate area. She began to question whether or not she would ever see her dreams become a reality. A few weeks went by and each time she passed the location and saw the "SOLD" sign she got a lump in her throat.  On one such occasion as she passed by, her cell phone rang. She didn't recognize the number and started to let the call go to voice mail. With a deep sigh she decided to answer the call. "Hello, this is Susan," she responded. A deep, baritone sounding voice on the other end replied, "Susan this is Mr. Scott. I purchased the building located at 15347 Sunrise St. I understand that you also had an interest in the building and wanted to meet with you." The meeting was scheduled for the following afternoon and Susan could barely contain her excitement. They agreed to meet at the building and Susan arrived a few minutes early. Workers were already milling about taking measurements and cleaning the exterior. She looked longingly at the big picture window which faced the corner. She had dreams of people walking past as she prepared homemade ice cream. Those dreams were gone now. Just then, she could see Mr. Scott walking towards her. He was a thin, tall man whose voice didn't match his physical appearance. He extended his hand and greeted her with a firm handshake.  Mr. Scott didn't waste anytime getting down to business. He explained that his company was a development firm that specialized in rehabbing businesses for mixed use. He was interested in leasing space to her for a micro version of the ice cream shop. In fact, if the concept was successful he'd like to see her open multiple locations in future developments. He'd definitely peaked her interest with his offer. Susan requested a formal proposal from Mr. Scott and some time to review it. The following week she received a FedEx package with the proposed agreement inside. After talking it over with her attorney and negotiating a few terms the deal was done. Susan's dream would come true and had the potential to be even bigger than she herself had imagined! Three years have since passed and Susan has opened 2 additional locations under the partnership with Mr. Scott with plans to open 2 more in the next year.

Sometimes what we think is the end is really just the beginning. It's not always a bad thing to merge our plan with a bigger one. When our hearts and minds remain open then possibilities are always present. In Susan's case success was achieved by going a route she hadn't even considered. Merging her dreams with the dreams of another entity got her the results she desired and open doors to more opportunity. Don't be afraid to explore alternatives. Sometimes chasing our dreams means going with the flow set by someone else. It's okay to keep your options open!

-Enna B

Wednesday, August 31, 2016

How to Win the Waiting Game


If patience truly is a virtue (and it is,) then waiting is truly a challenge. Much of our lives are spent hurrying from one goal or objective to another only to met with delay, denial or derailment. Knowing that gratification will not be immediate or easy can be enough to keep us from trying or giving up well before the goal is reached. Winning at waiting is a skill the great ones have mastered. Don't get discouraged with the process. Keep the goal in mind and reflect on what motivated you to pursue your passions in the first place. We are doers, achievers, go-getters and so winning at waiting can be difficult because we want to actively participate in reaching our goals. A well seasoned steak can be marinated for hours. Wine and other liquors are "aged" for many years in some cases to achieve the perfect flavor. Our own physical, emotional and mental growth takes place of a span of many years. Growth and development take time. Don't rush the process. Develop a "PS," a Patience Strategy! Your "PS" is what you fall back on when waiting becomes unbearable. It includes things that:
  • Remind you of why you started
  • Affirmations on why patience is important
  • Goal review tasks to make sure you are still on the right path

You "PS" should accompany every major goal you set so that you are ready to confront anything that tries to discourage you from following through on making what you are working so hard to achieve become a reality. Want a copy of our FREE "PS" Template? Email MasterPeace Mindset Life Coaching. We can help you stay on track and develop your "PS" Plan!. You can win at waiting! Keep growing!

Enna B

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