What I've learned by trial, error and revelation is that when you sign up for what you don't want then the outcome is what you don't need. Before you make a connection you need to understand your needs and your expectations.
Ask yourSELF: What do I NEED from this scenario or individual?
If the situation or the person is unable to meet or exceed those expectations then its time for you to move on. So many times we are disappointed by outcomes because we have not outlined our expectations or held ourselves accountable for honoring our own standards/morals/values. The best person to defend/protect you is Y-O-U.
Here's what you need to do to maintain your VAL-YOU:
1. Establish and maintain boundaries
2. Evaluate a situation or a person against your established standards/morals/values
3. Communicate your needs and expectations clearly and unapologetically up front
4. Have the courage to disconnect when necessary
-Coach Enna B
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You know it's time to make reaching your goals a priority but finding an unbiased accountability partner who can help you succeed is challenge. Are you:
- Ready for a reset or a fresh start?
- Wondering if life coaching is for you?
- Want to get a feel for my coaching style?
- Curious as to how you can benefit from being coached?
How about a TEST DRIVE? You can schedule a FREE 30-minute, no obligation coaching session with me. Let's connect! You have nothing to lose! During your complimentary coaching session we'll delve into:
CLICK HERE to schedule your FREE 30-minute coaching session! You can also call 586.834.8798 to make an appointment. You have absolutely nothing to lose by taking advantage of this free 30-minute coaching session. The time is NOW to move forward!
There is a road assigned to all of us. A path, if you will, that leads us to our destiny. This path, has peaks and valleys, rest stops and road blocks, and if we do it right, all of these add up to a life well lived. Is it perfect? Of course not! But, it can be fulfilling, inspiring, impactful, and meaningful along the way. It's true what they say: "There's no traffic along the extra mile." Unfortunately for us though, this is where most of our most important work is done. In those quiet, sometimes lonely places where its just you, no one else. This is one of the reasons why many don't choose the extra mile because we'd rather be with a crowd then out ahead of it. We'd rather blend in than break through. But there comes a time in everyone's life when we have to move past mediocre in order to get to meaningful. We have to to be willing not only to "look" at the "man in the mirror" but to all "deal with" the man in the mirror. We leave a lot of stuff unsaid to ourselves! One of my primary goals as a life coach is to challenge and support people in having meaningful dialog with themselves that results in the refocusing of effort, energy, and enthusiasm on the tasks, priorities, and purpose that will move them forward on the things that matter to them. You do have "the power." It's inside of you. It's waiting to be tapped into.
As we begin a dialog on the extra mile the first thing we have to do is find it! We have to make sure that the path is the one assigned to US and not someone else's. Many times we find ourselves living vicariously through others, procrastinating, or making sacrifices to help others realize their goals while our own desires are aborted, neglected and unfilled. We guilt ourselves into being helpful or making sacrifices for others while neglecting our own self care. Running on "E" doesn't help us maximize our own potential or fully support others. From this moment forward I want you to re-establish your relationship with yourSELF. Allow this courtship to begin in a patient and loving way. Don't just focus on what makes you flawless spend some time on your faults as well. We are only as strong as our weakest link and many of us have been faking strong for far too long. Lets get into some spiritual and emotional chemotherapy and do the work that results in:
- Finding Peace
- Holding Ourselves Accountable
- Reaching our Goals
- Sustaining our Progress
- Exceeding our own Expectations
MasterPeace Mindset Life Coaching is here to assist and support you in this worthwhile endeavor. We are your partner in progress and have a variety of platforms to support your growth and development. Let's get started! It's time to tap into your treasure and lets start with the map that gets you the right road!
Enna A. Bachelor is a dynamic Life Coach with an ability to bring out the best in others based on the goals they set for themselves. Her approach, creativity, and relentless belief that individuals have what it takes to reach their goals helps to to be an effective advocate and partner for those who are ready to take on the extra mile! Why a life coach? That's a great question! Many times an unbiased 3rd party with the ability to help us see ourselves from a different vantage point is the jump start we need to move forward. It's an effective tool for maximizing potential in individuals or groups!
Ready to start the dialog? Contact us at 586.834.8798. Your first consultation is FREE!
