Why it's Important to Know What YOU Need

What I've learned by trial, error and revelation is that when you sign up for what you don't want then the outcome is what you don't need. Before you make a connection you need to understand your needs and your expectations. 

Ask yourSELF: What do I NEED from this scenario or individual? 

If the situation or the person is unable to meet or exceed those expectations then its time for you to move on. So many times we are disappointed by outcomes because we have not outlined our expectations or held ourselves accountable for honoring our own standards/morals/values. The best person to defend/protect you is Y-O-U. 

Here's what you need to do to maintain your VAL-YOU:

1. Establish and maintain boundaries
2. Evaluate a situation or a person against your established standards/morals/values
3. Communicate your needs and expectations clearly and unapologetically up front
4. Have the courage to disconnect when necessary

-Coach Enna B

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ACCEPTANCE VS AGREEMENT

Acceptance is not necessarily agreement although the two are easily confused. A person can choose to accept something because wisdom says its not worth the effort or energy to continue to dispute or defend a path or a person which does not add to one's own value. This is where the ability to discern what battles to choose becomes critical. Choose to focus your energies on YOUR God given purpose rather than to pursue what will distract you from your assignment. Every battle does not require you to report for duty.

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