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Monday, September 26, 2016

When Growing Means Going With the Flow


You goals are set. You have a plan. Now it's time to execute. While your plan looks great on paper the reality is that there are outside forces and folks who influence your ability to accomplish what you have set out to do. The world is a much bigger place than our tiny little bubble, As a result, it becomes necessary to execute our plan in the midst of what is going on around us. 

Susan had always dreamed of opening an ice cream shop in her home town. She had the perfect location and the funding secured to purchase it. After years of planning and saving she was about to make her dream of being a business owner in the community she grew up in a reality. She made her offer for the building and then it was time to wait and see what the owners would do. After a few days her realtor called back and advised her that the owners had decided to accept another offer. Susan was heartbroken, she had waited so long for this opportunity and now it was seemingly out of reach. She did have the capital to increase her offer and there were really no other viable locations in the immediate area. She began to question whether or not she would ever see her dreams become a reality. A few weeks went by and each time she passed the location and saw the "SOLD" sign she got a lump in her throat.  On one such occasion as she passed by, her cell phone rang. She didn't recognize the number and started to let the call go to voice mail. With a deep sigh she decided to answer the call. "Hello, this is Susan," she responded. A deep, baritone sounding voice on the other end replied, "Susan this is Mr. Scott. I purchased the building located at 15347 Sunrise St. I understand that you also had an interest in the building and wanted to meet with you." The meeting was scheduled for the following afternoon and Susan could barely contain her excitement. They agreed to meet at the building and Susan arrived a few minutes early. Workers were already milling about taking measurements and cleaning the exterior. She looked longingly at the big picture window which faced the corner. She had dreams of people walking past as she prepared homemade ice cream. Those dreams were gone now. Just then, she could see Mr. Scott walking towards her. He was a thin, tall man whose voice didn't match his physical appearance. He extended his hand and greeted her with a firm handshake.  Mr. Scott didn't waste anytime getting down to business. He explained that his company was a development firm that specialized in rehabbing businesses for mixed use. He was interested in leasing space to her for a micro version of the ice cream shop. In fact, if the concept was successful he'd like to see her open multiple locations in future developments. He'd definitely peaked her interest with his offer. Susan requested a formal proposal from Mr. Scott and some time to review it. The following week she received a FedEx package with the proposed agreement inside. After talking it over with her attorney and negotiating a few terms the deal was done. Susan's dream would come true and had the potential to be even bigger than she herself had imagined! Three years have since passed and Susan has opened 2 additional locations under the partnership with Mr. Scott with plans to open 2 more in the next year.

Sometimes what we think is the end is really just the beginning. It's not always a bad thing to merge our plan with a bigger one. When our hearts and minds remain open then possibilities are always present. In Susan's case success was achieved by going a route she hadn't even considered. Merging her dreams with the dreams of another entity got her the results she desired and open doors to more opportunity. Don't be afraid to explore alternatives. Sometimes chasing our dreams means going with the flow set by someone else. It's okay to keep your options open!

-Enna B

Thursday, September 22, 2016

Why it's Important to Know What YOU Need


What I've learned by trial, error and revelation is that when you sign up for what you don't want then the outcome is what you don't need. Before you make a connection you need to understand your needs and your expectations. 

Ask yourSELF: What do I NEED from this scenario or individual? 

If the situation or the person is unable to meet or exceed those expectations then its time for you to move on. So many times we are disappointed by outcomes because we have not outlined our expectations or held ourselves accountable for honoring our own standards/morals/values. The best person to defend/protect you is Y-O-U. 

Here's what you need to do to maintain your VAL-YOU:

1. Establish and maintain boundaries
2. Evaluate a situation or a person against your established standards/morals/values
3. Communicate your needs and expectations clearly and unapologetically up front
4. Have the courage to disconnect when necessary

-Coach Enna B


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Monday, September 19, 2016

WORD FOR THE WEEK

Focus your efforts in a real and specific way so that your dreams be one goals and your goals become your reality!

Tuesday, September 13, 2016

NO MORE NEGATIVE SELF TALK

No negative self talk. Be exclusively positive about your YES in your thoughts and communication. Many of us have a YES that contradicts our current circumstances. Based on what our circumstances say in the present there is no way a YES can manifest. We don't have enough money, we don't have enough power, we don't have enough influence, we don't have enough energy, we don't have enough support, and the list goes on and on.BUT the great thing about our YES is that it is not based on what we can SEE but rather on what we believe. Faith is the key that unlocks the door! And so regardless of what it looks like, sounds like, feels like, etc.

Our yes is achievable when we dare to believe God beyond what our natural eye can see. Our words and our actions demonstrate our faith. Are your words and your actions consistent with the YES you are looking for? If not, its time to make a shift!


  • Replace "if" with "when." 
  • Exchange "can" for "can't." 
  • Swap "doubt" for "faith." 
  • Switch from "excuses" to "effort."  

The first place we access our YES is in our minds and with our mouths.

Saturday, September 10, 2016

Monday, September 5, 2016

BACK TO SCHOOL JEWELS




It's that time of year again where students from Pre-K to PhD gear up for a new season of learning. As a child, I remember the excitement of the preparation for a new school year. One of the best things about it was that you got lots of new stuff. Everything was brand new, fresh, neat, and organized from the clothes to the school supplies. Everyone looked forward to the first day outfit, sporting a new backpack, and new shoes. It never got old!

As I reflected on these fond memories it dawned on me that what excited me as a youth has value as a life application today.  Here are 4 Back to School jewels we can apply to our everyday lives to increase our val-you:
  1. Develop a fresh perspective. Apply a new outlook as you work toward improving your current situation.
  2. Discard old mindsets that didn't serve you well in the past. Make room for the growth you are expecting.
  3. Organize your thoughts and ideas into manageable tasks. Don't be intimidated by the size of task. You can eat the elephant one bite at a time. Bon a petit!
  4. Pack your bag in advance. What good is having supplies if you can't access them when you need them? Your mental backpack should contain a positive attitude, affirmations, a list of your goals, and what defines what success means for you.

We are getting ready to head into the 4th quarter of 2016. It's a great time to finish strong and get a headstart on next year's success strategies!

-Enna B


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